Kindness is Punk

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Cake day: May 21st, 2025

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  • Honestly, it’s exhausting on the ego, though, because I constantly question myself and I’m aware of how much I don’t know. From the outside, that does make me seem deficient.

    I think that’s partly why the debate bro energy caught on, you don’t actually need to know anything. You just need to project strength.

    The irony is that real knowledge feeds more doubt, not less. The more you learn, the more you see the edges of your own ignorance.


  • I think you might be taking the term a bit too literally. When people say objectifying, they don’t mean acknowledging or sexualizing their body. They mean reducing a person to just their body or sexual function, as if their mind, feelings, and autonomy don’t matter.

    It’s when the body is treated as all there is. Think of the 1950s and '60s, women were often seen as existing primarily for reproduction or male pleasure, not as full people with their own goals, thoughts, or boundaries.

    Sex positivity, by contrast, says: bodies are great, sex is great, but the other person remains a subject, someone with consent, desires, and dignity of their own. You can appreciate the body without erasing the person.