Grey text is looking out for their safety, good for them. Blue text is clearly communicating their boundaries, good for them. Neither is phrasing their needs as I would, but that’s small potatoes. I’d rather date either of these people than most of the ones replying in this thread.

Is this that feminist riddle again?

LOAD “*”, 8, 1

If I were an overworked teacher, I’d still rather award the point. Just throw down a checkmark and move on. I don’t need to write an explanation, and the kid/parents are not going to complain.

Theory of relativity. Which one is in the mirror is entirely dependent on your frame of reference.

Gay men are men, trans women are women.