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minus-squareStrider@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5·2 days agoI was kinda shit-answering but good answer! However I am afraid neurodivergence actually makes a difference as we re-experience our pains constantly.
minus-squarequeerlilhayseed@piefed.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·2 days agoIt surely does, though I don’t think self-harming mental patterns are exclusive to neurodivergent folk.
minus-squareStrider@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 days agoOh I wasn’t talking about self harming patterns. It’s the neurotypical harming us/me routinely. (without evil intent but just as a result of the 99% vs 1% behavior, so it’s just normal)
minus-squarecaptainlezbian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 days agoYes, but in such cases healing involves learning how to avoid some of those pains and manage and cope with the rest.
minus-squareStrider@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 days agoSome of us are just out of luck, there’s literally nothing.
I was kinda shit-answering but good answer!
However I am afraid neurodivergence actually makes a difference as we re-experience our pains constantly.
It surely does, though I don’t think self-harming mental patterns are exclusive to neurodivergent folk.
Oh I wasn’t talking about self harming patterns. It’s the neurotypical harming us/me routinely.
(without evil intent but just as a result of the 99% vs 1% behavior, so it’s just normal)
Yes, but in such cases healing involves learning how to avoid some of those pains and manage and cope with the rest.
Some of us are just out of luck, there’s literally nothing.