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minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up32·1 month ago You don’t like bush, cool, don’t sleep with someone who has one. Should this conversation happen prior to the encounter, then?
minus-squareMBech@feddit.dklinkfedilinkarrow-up52arrow-down2·1 month agoNothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.
minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up74·1 month ago“Oh you grew up in Phoenix? My family’s in Scottsdale. So, like, do you have pubes?”
minus-squareHAL_9_TRILLION@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up62·1 month agoSorry, Scottsdale is a dealbreaker.
minus-squarerunner_g@piefed.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 month agoI can excuse Scottsdale but I draw the line at Cave Creek.
minus-squareViceversa@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up19arrow-down2·1 month agoIn theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.
minus-squarePostmortal_Pop@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up18arrow-down3·1 month agoIf the moment can be ruined by something little, it was going to be ruined to begin with.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up19arrow-down5·1 month agoMuch more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.
minus-squareStinkywizzleteats@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·1 month agosex is physical use body language
minus-squaretomiant@piefed.socialBannedlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down2·1 month agoHe doesn’t “owe her anything”, so…
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down4·1 month agoNever said he did. I’m saying it’s probably better to bring up such a strong preference before clothes come off.
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6arrow-down6·1 month agoWouldn’t that technically mean she’s raping you?
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down3·1 month agoIt was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down5·1 month agoNo one was talking about that here. YOU brought up rape unprovoked. Rape isn’t funny.
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down1·1 month agoYou straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex. Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down1·1 month agoWeeds out the weak quickly lol
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up22·1 month agoIf you care enough about it, yes.
minus-squareVeganCheesecake@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up7·1 month agoIf it’s actually a total deal breaker for you then … probably?
minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down1·1 month agoNah, I’ve been married for 22 years, I don’t care anymore. Actually never did.
Should this conversation happen prior to the encounter, then?
Nothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.
“Oh you grew up in Phoenix? My family’s in Scottsdale. So, like, do you have pubes?”
Sorry, Scottsdale is a dealbreaker.
I can excuse Scottsdale but I draw the line at Cave Creek.
In theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.
If the moment can be ruined by something little, it was going to be ruined to begin with.
Not at all
Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.
sex is physical use body language
This one got me hahah
You’ve forgot another scenario.
He doesn’t “owe her anything”, so…
Never said he did. I’m saying it’s probably better to bring up such a strong preference before clothes come off.
Wouldn’t that technically mean she’s raping you?
What the fuck?
It was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.
No one was talking about that here. YOU brought up rape unprovoked.
Rape isn’t funny.
You straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex.
Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.
Weeds out the weak quickly lol
If you care enough about it, yes.
If it’s actually a total deal breaker for you then … probably?
Nah, I’ve been married for 22 years, I don’t care anymore. Actually never did.